It has taken years to learn how to live a life that was not predetermined.

10 years later, and I am still uncovering old beliefs, old pain, and lingering inner criticism that was never mine. One of the biggest challenges was the loneliness.

When I left, I didn't know anyone else who had left. I was trying to navigate who I was, and I didn't have anyone to talk to.

Not only did I lose friends who stayed in the church, but the pull back from family members felt like a disowning. The grief was overwhelming.

I learned what real friendship looks like and what unconditional love feels like. The connections and friendships I have now are deeper and more authentic than any relationship I had when I was a member of the church. I am so grateful for this awakening that has helped me build lasting connection based on more than superficial encounters.

A true friend knows you - all of you - and loves you for everything you are. That is what we are building inside our Cozy Chat.

The theme for June is The Quiet After.

Let's talk about the lonely space we must go through when we leave an entire community behind.

Come and join me in this free virtual meet-up.